Life without sex – it's better than you think

Your life is, by all accounts, great. You are likely to have external comfort; maybe a job you like, even if slightly; and you probably live in a beautiful town or city. You're by most accounts, not suffering an excruciating life. Yes, friends and girlfriends are special, they give us warm and cozy feelings. Yes, knowing someone cares certainly gives us a boost. 

But, what about you? 

Are you loving yourself? Are you giving yourself what you look for in others? What I know from my own experience is that self-pity is unattractive. That, by the way doesn't mean ugly. It means it doesn't attract much, other than more self-pity.

Here's my suggestion. Shake it off every morning by doing something you love. Absolutely love. Anything at all. Then, do what you hope others would do for you, with love for yourself. If you're getting down on yourself, call your mother and don't complain. Just listen to her talk about herself, without judgement. Listening to her may give you joy, think about it! She is your best friend from now on, the one who listens to you, but most importantly, the one you listen to. And then go on with life, giving, enjoying, and letting things out with those you trust. Just don't delve in self pity.